Start improving your marriage and relationships TODAY using these free daily tips.

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37. Do Not Repeat. Do Not Repeat. Do Not Repeat

Learn from your mistakes. When something goes wrong and the two of you work through it, do not repeat the same mistake. Rather than dive right back into whatever it was you did or said think before you act. At first, this will take some discipline but as you see positive results in the relationship, be encouraged that it is working.

Especially for married couples, but even for some "dating" couples, start dating. Often people become very comfortable in their relationship and sitting around on the weekends, watching, movies is about as exciting as it gets. Ask your mate out. For example, actually call them an, ask, "If you do not have any plans for Saturday night, would you like to go to a concert with. me?" It is crucial to relationships that they keep the fire alive by enjoying the act of dating There are many people in long-term, successful marriages that will tell you they go out on date every week, which has been a huge bonus for their relationship.

Start a memory box to store old movie tickets, brochures from cities visited, concert tick( stubs, old ski lift passes, cards attached to flowers received, old love notes or letters, birthday, cards or anniversary cards from your mate, anything that the two of you did together. Ever, once in awhile, pull the box out and look at the items with your mate. Reminisce about each. memento, and keep all the special times in your life close to your heart!

Whether married or dating, if there are kids involved, it is crucial that they are not used as pawns in any situation. For example, if your mate wants to get intimate and you are not in the mood, do not say, "I need to help the kids with their homework," or if something that needed to be done was not taken care of because you forgot, do not blame it on the kids by saying, "I was taking care of the kids and did not have time." In the first scenario, be honest with your mate and tell them that you are very tired and while intimacy is important, you would prefer to make sure the kids are in bed on time so the two of you can have some quality time together. This opens an honest line of communication and does not place ill feelings on the kids, especially, since it is not their problem to begin with.

When working on your relationship, more than likely you and your mate have settled into pattern of speaking to each other. It might be with short, blunt answers, heavy sighs as thought. bothered, or with negative remarks. Pay attention to not only your words spoken, but also the tone in which they are spoken. Be positive, cheery, and respond in a way that will confirm to your mate that you are listening and truly interested - that you have time to listen and, communicate. In addition, add terms of endearment into your conversation. Instead of "Good, morning," try, "Hi honey, good morning!

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