| Dealing
with a cheating spouse or cheating boyfriend can be one of the most
painful and devastating experiences a relationship can face.I cannot
recommend this book enough. It not only outlines specifically the
7 types of affairs (and how to handle each - whether you choose to
stay or go), but you will find it's material empowering. This
book will help you to fully understand that YOU are not defective.There
is nothing wrong with YOU! It also begins with the big question:
"Do you really want to be in a relationship with this person?"Anyone
faced with infidelity, or anyone who wants to avoid infidelity should
have a copy ofthis book. I cannot recommend it enough. Tracey of pig-dogs.net |
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With
your e-book, at least the feeling of being "crazy"
is lessening somewhat.
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Thank
you for caring enough about people and thank you for bringing
some sanity to my not so sane world.
---Brad
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hi,
Just wanted to let you know I am finding your web site very
helpful. I just read about the need to know exactly what
happened in an affair. My husband had an affair last year
and I found out in June of this year. I have not been able
to go a day without having questions,questions, questions.
He answers most with detail however he often says he does
not know or he does not remember. that drives me crazy,
I feel if he had an affair after 19 years of a very close
relationship with me he should remember every detail of
the affair. He is very remorseful and wants to work things
out and actually broke it off with this woman long before
I found out. I think we can make it I just wish all these
thoughts feelings and Questions would go away, he hates
the questions. Thanks for listening,it helps to let someone
else know what is going on with me ,as I am keeping this
hush hush from most everybody.
---Marcia
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It
is very important for the sanity of we who have been betrayed
to know that we are NOT crazy and that an affair is NOT
our "fault". You are terrific for providing this information
---Yvonne
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The
explanations you give are usually right on. You seem to
know what I'm feeling. Each time I talk to you I feel
stronger and stronger.
---Debbie
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Your
materials are very helpful--one of the best "affair" sites
on the web.
---Amy
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Wish
I had found your page before the divorce was final and they
are engaged.
--- Vickie
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Reading
your newsletters really seems to help. I read it Monday
night and by Tuesday, I felt really good. I felt like
I could control everything and not have him in my thoughts
every second.
---Subscriber
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I
look forward to your future newsletters. (My husband
is aware I am getting information from this site and he
is actually reading some of it! I hope it helps.)
---Subscriber
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I
appreciate this site being available to people like me who
have many, many questions and concerns after an affair
has been revealed. You are a big help.
---Jack
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I
often find myself wanting to talk to others that may be
able to share some of their experiences with me. As you
must already know, it's a bit difficult sometimes to speak
about your feelings of deception with those whom you consider
friends. One of the biggest challenges is being able to
face your pain and bring it to light so that everyone else
knows just what you are going through. I found this site
on a day when I felt so darn lonely, and just out of answers.
I began reading some of the advise that you gave to others
and for the first time I realized I was not alone in my
struggle.
---Alan
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I've
struggled with this for almost a year. I am the one who
chose to have the affair and my husband has not found out
about it and I pray he never will. I ended it about 4 months
ago but everyday of my life I still think about him, what
I did and just the guilt of it all. Each day is a new
day, but I realize there is so much I need to learn about
myself and why I got in the situation to begin with. . I
was glad to find your website and I'm glad that today your
newsletter was here. Just wanted to say Thanks and keep
it coming.
--- Kathy
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Thank
you soooo much for the newsletter. This has been an incredibly
hard time in my life- to say the least- and knowing that
there is someone out there who cares means the world to
me. Thank you for me and all the others who are in this
nightmare.
---Dee
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I
had a chance to check the new site out today, and I was
so impressed and proud of just how well it has taken shape.
I know this is an overdue comfort zone for so many. I had
to take this moment to thank you for your dedication and
for your determination to make this powerful information
available to a community of so many. You have no idea
just how many people live in pain because they do not know
just where to turn. I am an advocate of this site and I
promote it whenever possible. I have shared this site
with people who I have come in contact with that seem lost
in their own struggle.
---Debra
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I
learned that the kind of affair I was facing and that it
was not my FAULT. Also practical strategies to get
my life going.
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The
most important thing that I learned was that I had to worry
about myself first. Another thing that was important was
that I discovered that there was an emptiness that my wife
was feeling that was caused by something that occurred to
her long ago.That no matter what - I am going to make
it! The affair is not my fault. He chose to do it, not me!
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| Thank
you for all your newsletters. I have been collecting them
but unfortunately my computer crashed and I lost all those
received since October. Would it be at all possible to have
you resend those newsletters to my e-mail address? Joanne |
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is such a BLESSING to me to know there is someone out there
who specializes in the field of infidelity. It has been a
lonely search for me, quite isolating. I have always known
there has to be another nice woman like me somewhere in this
world - with a child from a married man. The stereotypes of
the 'other woman' are not always on the mark. I've looked
for a therapist prior to this, and have found therapist to
preach to me - to condemn me - or to support me - but never
able to sort of see where I'm at currently and help me from
there. I'm sure you understand. One must start therapy from
where they actually are - and where I am is very threatening
to many married folk, even therapist. I'm already grateful
to you for simply acknowledging the subject of infidelity
and the therapeutic needs in relation to the topic. Theresa |
| The
ebook put things into perspective for me. Gwen |
| Everyone
who is experiencing the pain and shock of an affair or suspected
affair should read Dr. Bob Huizenga's "Breaking Free"
book. This material, more than anything else, has helped
me forge my way through a terrible time, and gain clear perspective
on what I have been dealing with. Dr. Bob sheds light
on human nature and the predictable patterns we follow in
relationships and marriages in a profoundly concise way. "Break
Free" has set me free in many ways, despite terrible
personal pain, because I was able to put my situation into
perspective, and face the reality of it all. Truth,
stumbling around for months and perhaps even years, "wondering"
about what my husband's behaviour might mean, and how I ought
to behave back, I quickly gained a clear understanding of
my reality after reading "Break Free." As time goes
on, I find myself even more amazed at just how accurate and
helpful Dr. Bob's insight and advice is. On top of the material,
Bob's personal coaching has provided much needed relief and
additional support when I have really needed it. Thanks very
much Bob....- Jennifer (last name withheld) |
