Spying is NOT Revenge
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Do not use what you find on
your cheating spouse as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have
wonderfully violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to him/her
and the other person. This is very normal. But, don’t act them out.
Using what you find to extract revenge will only lengthen the time of
pain and anger. It will undermine your integrity as a person, lower your
personal standards and make you exceedingly unattractive.
Resist the temptation to sling the mud!
Keep what you find to yourself.
The obvious signs of a cheating spouse disturbed you. You spy because
the truth will set YOU free. The quickest cleanest way to break free from
the extramarital affair is to set your focus on you as you navigate
your way through the difficult weeks and months.
The sooner the two of you can face each other, without outside input or
influence, the better off you and the relationship will be.
There usually is no reason to share new found information about cheating
husbands or cheating wives with family, friends, children or the spouse
of the other person. A concern about sexually transmitted diseases or
health risks might be an exception. If it is important to share such information,
do so without much fanfare or drama.
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