9 Signs That Your Wife is CheatingCheating wives and girlfriends comprise of about 10 to 15% of the unfaithful population. And still, numbers show that wives dabbling in infidelity are on the rise. Women tend to be more secretive about their extra-marital affairs and are more careful about their lovers. They are also more inclined to go for a sustained relationship than a fling.Unless you're an extremely keen observer or unless your wife is very careless, it's rather difficult to know whether or not she's cheating on you. Certain signs may indicate she's involved in an affair, but be careful about assuming too much. The only times you can actually know she's cheating on you for real is when she admits to the affair or when you have real evidence. If you suspect your wife is not being faithful, she may undergo certain changes in her behavior. Some of these include: There is a decrease in her intimacy level with you. Women put a high value on the emotional connection in sex. If she no longer feels that emotional connection with you, her sexual interest fades. And it's more than just being tired, stressed or having a medical condition. Your advances are often rejected or refused or even if she does agree, she shows little enthusiasm, if at all. If you spend more time at work or with friends, it's okay with her. She doesn’t mind the lack of attention from you and hardly misses your presence. You could be gone 24 hours and she probably won't get upset. This is a sign that your wife is cheating on you, especially if she did not like your absence too much in the past. When her attitude towards your absence is nonchalance, it means she doesn't care much if you didn’t see each other. Important things happen and she doesn’t inform you. Husbands and wives have an emotional connection and in a healthy, happy marriage, wives prefer to confide with their husbands. Of course, she will always have her girlfriends to talk to, but if there are some significant things going on in her mind, she will include her husband on the list of listeners. If she's cheating, she's more likely distracted and less interested to let you know what's happening with her life. She suddenly receives mysterious phone calls and pages If you're the one answering the phone, the caller will hang up. Your wife may prefer to answer the phone and discourage you from doing it. She talks on the phone in a low voice or in whispers and then suddenly hangs up if you appear. She might even get a page during strange hours of the day and it's not even part of her job. She begins to give more attention to her looks. Normally, you should be thankful. If your wife wants to look beautiful, it means she wants to be more attractive to you. This is a tricky sign of cheating, however. Just because she buys a new wardrobe, has a new hairstyle or has started losing weight doesn’t mean she's doing it for someone else. Don’t use this as a sole point against her. However, if this is combined with other changes in her behavior, it could be a warning sign, especially if she's extra careful about the way she looks if she's only going someplace casual. When she's with you, she hardly bothers. She begins to be absent for extended periods. Other than work, occasional trips to the mall, going to appointments or having lunch with her friends, she probably lets you know where she goes. But if there are unexplained absences where she's suddenly difficult or impossible to reach and giving only vague responses, it may be a sign she's spending time with another person. She doesn’t mind the 'competition'. Jealousy isn’t something she bothers with anymore. All of a sudden, she doesn’t mind if you go out more or engage in harmless flirting with other women. She may even encourage you to spend more time with your buddies or on your hobbies. She's trying to be rid of your presence, if only for a while. Her car goes where it's never gone before. Married couples inform each other of longer trips they may make on their own. If your wife is cheating, you may probably find extra mileage on her car – something she has either a vague explanation for or none at all. This hike in her usual mileage coincides with her absences. When you're out with her, you run into friends she never told you about. If your wife has been cheating on you for some time, she has probably developed a different circle of friends involving her lover. She's close to these people, as if she's known them for a long time and yet, you've never even heard of them before. She finds everything you do annoying. A wife who loves you doesn’t mind the silly things you do. If she starts cheating, she'll find fault in a lot of things. She gets easily bored or provoked. It may either be two things: she's trying to fight off guilt or she's trying to find an excuse to leave. |
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